I clearly stated twice that I severed things with the girl. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. In fact, you likely will meet a few. I have been dating a surgeon and we are thinking about marriage. Are days like this going to be normal. There will always be difference between spouses. Finally, it is a very tight-knit community and despite efforts to insulate you from conversion-minded missionaries, you will be exposed to a lot of people that think, like this woman does, that atheists are without a moral compass.
It is nice to hear that I am not alone, and that we can do it. Try to have a date night once a week and when your Dr Spouse has time off go somewhere. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me. My seminary teacher went off on me about dating a non Mormon when I was talking about going to his prom. He sees all families being able to stay together.
Whereas white and black may both sleep in on Sunday and tie their left shoes first, Mos have a set of behavioral norms that are in serious conflict with Nomo lifestyles. If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down. He is studying to get into a residency program and I struggle to get his time. Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs.
But that was also a possibility if he had married a non-mormon. Should I marry him. That's my two cents. We have family prayer every day and read the scriptures occasionally.
